Are you someone who hasn’t led a very easy life emotionally and now tend to live very much on the defensive or as if you just don’t care? Trust me, there’s hope.
You don’t have to wear that emotional “cement overcoat” forever.
In Psychic Love Doctor card readings, your cards will signal right off the bat that many in the past whom you’ve tried to get close to, invest yourself in and ultimately, feel a strong loving attachment to have only let you down in the end.
These experiences will be perceived to have caused you to feel a considerable amount of emotional pain over the years to the extent that you’ve learned to process pain by protecting yourself through the wearing of an emotional “cement overcoat,” which compels you to treat others in an extremely harsh, abrasive manner in the process.
It’s important that you try to let yourself off the hook where guilt and regret are concerned in order to heal. Your defenses are perceived to have been created as a result of the experiences you’ve had in past relationships, which were, intuitively speaking, completely beyond your control.
Psychic Love insights lead to self discovery
Psychic Love Doctor readings will always, always indicate that you are involved in a crucial period of self-discovery when you become more aware of mistakes in judgment you’ve made where relationships are concerned in the past. As a result, you will be that much more empowered to change the course of your life for the better once you resolve the deep, inner pain you feel. Only then will you will be able to focus on achieving a happier, more fulfilling life for yourself in the future.
Realizing that you now wear a cement overcoat emotionally is definitely a step in the right direction in the sense that it confirms your desire for awareness so that you can change the path you are following to the future. Enabling you, by having that awareness, that you are more than ready to embrace a happier life for yourself now.
To achieve that happiness, I urge you to be gentler with yourself. Most importantly, forgive yourself. You are not a cruel person or making a fool of yourself. You are just an individual who has endured so many hurts and lingering wounds in your life that you feel the need to strike out at others simply to protect yourself from more pain.
I suggest that while you are trying to shed that cement overcoat that when you make a comment to someone and you know it’s unkind, you immediately force yourself to say, “I’m sorry, I didn’t mean to say that to you, I’m just going through a rough time right now.”
The more you can try to open yourself up to healing by being honest about yourself, the more that healing will have a chance to occur.
Psychic Love healing starts with those we love
It’s always been my perception that those closest to us when we are wearing that overcoat still cares for us but are in dire need of a sincere apology. Write or phone these individuals to tell them you are sorry. Let them know that you only wish true happiness for them.
Then concentrate on that good thought by allowing your loved ones to travel their own path to the future – regardless of whether it is with you or without you.
By sending positive energy out to others this way, you might be very surprised to find those most hurt by you in the past re-entering your life again in the future.
Those who wear such emotional cement overcoats are perceived to have been travelling a difficult, rugged road for themselves for quite a long period of time.
But by re-directing yourself toward forgiveness and understanding, you make it possible to be able to achieve both for yourself in the end.
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