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Friday, December 18th, 2009
Need, in terms of Personal Prophesy philosophy which I use exclusively in giving playing card readings, is an extremely powerful force.
Need encompasses the deepest, most intense yearning of the heart to feel that sense of completeness which only one partner – the right partner – can provide.
Women are intuitively perceived to express “need” much more easily than men do, mainly because women tend to live their lives far more in touch with their own true feelings.
Men, on the other hand, tend to be more withdrawn in terms of expressing “need” simply because they put so much effort into denying for themselves what they consider to be emotional weakness. At least in the external sense. When I conduct card readings focused on a particular man, it’s readily perceivable the depth of the need he feels.
Need is interpreted quite a large part of the time in readings for men as weakness in terms of their own perception. Men, after all, aren’t designed to accept feelings of weakness in terms of themselves. They are, by nature, hunters and protectors. They are raised to be strong and courageous. Even their own mothers have told them, “Boys don’t cry,” which in essence tells them from a very early age that males do not “feel”, they instead “react” by being fearless, strong, unaffected by emotion. Which is why so many men portray themselves as needless in their relationships.
A totally wrong concept when it comes to the human heart and Personal Prophesy card readings
After years of conducting psychic/intuitive readings for men from around the world, I can tell you that they are extremely deep feeling, they do suffer incredibly intense emotions, they have a strong tendency to be highly sensitive beings, but – and this is an awfully huge “BUT” – they are so adept at stuffing these emotions and their own relentless feelings of neediness behind a careless facade enabling them to project themselves as cool, aloof, unaffected.
This is one of the reasons why I urge women engaged in difficult, unsatisfying relationships to decisively choose to remove themselves from these relationships and simply walk away even when they don’t want to take such a step. Not because there is no love on the part of the men they are involved with, clearly there is love in the hearts of these men as perceived in the cards.
The step these women decide to take “out” of these relationships holds tremendous potential to lead these men toward genuine feelings of loss and ultimately, need. The need to get that relationship back and become better partners for these women in the end.
Remember that old saying, “You don’t know what you had until it’s gone?” It’s almost magical when it comes to a man who seemed emotionally indifferent during a relationship. Give him enough time to realize how much he misses you and what he had when he was in this relationship with you and you’ll find him wanting to be a better man for you as a result of his own deep-seated feelings of need.
Tags: love, need, Personal Prophesy, psychic, readings, relationships, truth
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Wednesday, December 16th, 2009
The holidays can be the most meaningful times in our lives. They can also prove to be the most stressful – if not the most damaging – particularly in terms of the future.
What we do (or don’t do) during the holidays can depend tremendously on how psychically aware we are about our lives and those who interact with us.
Personal Prophesy readings which use ordinary playing cards as the focal point for intuition perception can easily provide us with this all-important insight.
When I conduct readings for others during the holiday season, a huge item on my agenda as I perceive their lives through the cards is helping them not create a new negative holiday memory that will literally last forever.
I urge recipients of my readings to take a deep breath and a big step back in order to realistically consider the heartbreak they are setting themselves up for should they make poor choices for themselves during such an emotionally-charged time of the year.
Think back on your own past holiday experiences. What comes to mind first? Happy holiday memories, hopefully. For many among us, however, our first remembrances are extremely negative. What do those memories, the negative ones, do? They linger endlessly in our own memory banks and quite often will affect the way we celebrate the holiday season far into the future.
Personal Prophesy readings have taught me over the years that Holiday Do’s and Don’ts are:
* Give from the spirit if you can’t give from the heart.
The spirit believes in unconditional love and kindness because it is so intricately connected to the Universe itself. Give in to your spiritual side during the holidays. We all have family members, ex-spouses and friends who have let us down in the past. Possibly in incredibly major ways.
Would it kill us to extend some kindness toward them on the spiritual level, even if it’s only in a simple expression of “Merry Christmas” or “Please have a happy new year”?
Probably not.
Doing so will also be a big shot in the arm where our own spirituality is concerned.
On the other hand, if you can’t bring yourself to take that step physically, do it completely on the spiritual level. Say a prayer for that individual. Help someone less fortunate who crosses your path and provide that help as a spiritual offering in the name of someone who has hurt you in the past. You’ll be amazed at how blessed you become in your own life as a result!
* If you have children, buy their mother or father a gift on behalf of your kids.
Remember, it isn’t so much the gift itself that’s important, it’s what you are teaching your children by making that gift possible for them to hold in their hands and be able to give to the other parent in their lives that matters.
Children can feel so emotionally torn during the holidays. They love unconditionally both of their parents, after all. They want desperately during the holidays to be able to express that love. These kids never asked to suddenly find themselves refugees of a marriage or a committed relationship gone wrong that has since transformed into a messy divorce or a custody battle. They deserve to be taught the rightness of having a gift to give to that other parent – even if it isn’t a parent they have the chance to see very often.
These are things your children will remember far into adulthood and help them to learn solid lessons about life to pass down to their own children one day: The positive lessons they were taught about giving from you. The positive lessons they were taught about simply loving and honoring their parents – as distanced and apart as those parents might be. Again, lessons learned from you.
Such a gesture made through your children, providing a gift for them to give to that other parent, will accomplish all of that. It doesn’t matter how much of a rat their father was as a husband or how deficient their mother might have been as a wife during the marriage. Focus on the fact that you are teaching your children something important about giving and loving. The other parent will understand the lesson being taught by graciously receiving that gift.
* Don’t dwell on issues that have yet to be fully resolved.
This means especially with your own existing partners, family members, in-laws and friends. If you are in the midst of a situation, don’t bring that baggage into the holidays you are trying to celebrate. Yes, of course, you have every reason to analyze and debate “this” or “that” in terms of your relationships with these people, but let the cards and your own better judgment guide you as you celebrate the holiday season.
Family members and friends? It doesn’t hurt to just try to give a little of yourself through, say, a card extending a bit of your own humanity. It also makes you a better person within the scope of the Universe. But if you can’t bring yourself to buy them a gift, you can always donate to a worthy cause in their name with global charities like Heifer International.
You are really gifting the less fortunate in the world by doing so.
An ex your heart is is struggling with who wants to make a new start with you? Give it a try. The holiday season is, after all, focused on rebirth and the celebration of life. You really have nothing to lose and everything to gain by taking such a step, particularly at this time of the year.
If the two of you are able to create a new beginning as you celebrate the holidays, you’ll have this holiday season to look back on and remember. If the relationship just can’t achieve solid footing, once the holidays have passed you will at least have a good memory to place in your memory banks and not a negative one.
With that relationship fully resolved, you won’t have any baggage to take with you into the holiday season next year.
Tags: marriage, Personal Prophesy, psychic, psychic awareness. scientist, relationships
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Sunday, November 29th, 2009
After nearly 30 years of conducting Psychic Love Doctor readings for myself and others, a few irrefutable insights have revealed themselves over and over again.
Specifically:
- Real love never dies, even under the worst possible circumstances
- The joy of love in relationships always outweighs the pain
- The difference between love and hate is literally the turn of a leaf
In this discussion, let’s concentrate on #3: The difference between love and hate is literally the turn of a leaf.
Did you watch one of the latest episodes of “House” in the last couple of weeks? If you did, you might have caught an extremely telling moment between Cuddy and House near the end of the show.
TV.com posted in its Ignorance is Bliss Episode Recap:
House asks Cuddy if she wants to go for dinner. Cuddy refuses to play along and tells him to do his job. As Cuddy leaves, House intercepts her and asks if they can at least be civil. He then gives her the tickets for a holiday carnival, and says he’s just doing it to be nice. Cuddy refuses to take them and says she’ll see him tomorrow.
Now, think about it. If there was absolutely nothing in Cuddy’s heart for House, would she have rejected those tickets for herself and her daughter to attend a holiday carnival as abruptly as she did?
“I don’t want them,” she’d firmly stated.
Who says that to a nice gesture, a gift, from someone you feel affection for as a friend? No one. The gift is graciously accepted or declined with an “I’m sorry, that was nice of you, but we can’t go” or something along those lines and the carnival is either attended or not attended by the recipients of those tickets.
Psychic readings will clearly show unfinished emotional business between two people – especially the kind where pain and anger from the past are concerned – creating such an abrupt, even harsh response:
“I don’t want them.“
“I don’t need your help.”
“I don’t care that you’re lonely and hurting.”
“I hate you.”
Hate is the real biggie in these cases. Psychic readings never fail to reveal that no one who is truly resolved emotionally in terms of an ended relationship ever feels the passion and rage attached to the word “hate.”
Instead, they feel sympathy, empathy, sorrow, regret in connection to that ex-partner. Perhaps even indifference, apathy or just plain nothing by merely shrugging the shoulders and walking away.
Using the word hate and finding it characterized in psychic readings on the other hand, reveals so much more.
According to the article, Brain has thin line between love and hate, scientists reveal:
There really is a thin line between love and hate – at least in the brain, scientists have shown. A new study reveals that the brain’s “love” and “hate” circuits share identical structures.
Professor Semir Zeki, who carried out the brain scan study at University College London, said: “Hate is often considered to be an evil passion that should, in a better world, be tamed, controlled, and eradicated. Yet to the biologist, hate is a passion that is of equal interest to love.”
Did you get that?
Hate is a passion that is of equal interest to love.
In other words, even our own brains inherently understand the meaningful emotional connection between love and hate!
The same holds true in Personal Prophesy card readings.
Hate and love do share remarkably similar characteristics in such psychic readings and a bond that must be paid attention to. Both reveal the core of genuine passion – one positive, the other negative, yes – but it’s ‘passion’ just the same.
Such strong energy attached to that passion is very much akin to the difference between the turn of a leaf.
Consider that whenever the word hate is used in relation to another person we’ve shared an emotional bond with, particularly an ex-partner, there’s an awful lot of unresolved emotional baggage attached. So much so that the heart has chosen to transform that “baggage” into something it can articulate with a word to describe the anger and pain: Hate.
Hate allows us to take a defensive power stance – especially when we feel the most helpless emotionally. It gives us a feeling of control and protection over feelings of extreme pain and anger. And it does it’s job well.
However, when you conduct Personal Prophesy readings for yourself and others – or you have a Personal Prophesy reading conducted for you, you’ll quickly find that hate is far closer to love than was ever previously imagined.
The cards will clearly show that such hate is essentially only a defensive posture taken. Beneath that hate still lies a tremendous amount of love – wounded and wrapped in pain and anger as it may be. The bottom line is that it’s still love.
By perceiving this type of revelation in psychic readings, you put yourself in the position to be able to intuitively guide yourself and others toward a higher understanding in terms of such hate, slowly over time.
You’ll also discover that hatred, because it is so closely related to love, can in many instances be worked through and brought to a point of positive resolve under seemingly simple circumstances. For instance, an ex genuinely expresses that he or she is sorry and wants to make amends. He or she goes to great lengths to try to gain forgiveness. A lengthy period of separation brings both to the point of a new beginning.
To learn more about what what causes hatred to help you better understand your own Personal Prophesy card readings, remember most of all:
As we change from day to day, our emotions change the same. Consider that what you felt ten years ago, five years ago, five months ago – isn’t how you truly feel today. The same holds true in terms of our relationships.
Harsh words spoken actually do betray a heart that still cares.
It’s what you do to turn that situation around as you put one foot in front of the other toward the future that makes all the difference in the world between hating and loving.
Think about that.
Tags: Cuddy, hate, House, love, Personal Prophesy, psychic, readings, relationships
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Saturday, November 21st, 2009
Often in life we encounter some of the most beautiful and charismatic people that we seem to mesh with instantly; however, there’s a serious challenge that comes attached to these relationships and it can be a huge hurdle to overcome.
In psychic readings, I find this to be an extremely common occurrence in readings: a loved one is incapable of living completely in the Present.
Sadly, these otherwise amazing individuals are emotional prisoners of the past.
Past heartbreaks, past setbacks in their careers, past “what-could-have-been” regrets… they are perceived in psychic readings to be literally stuck wallowing in. They are so focused in looking back and agonizing, it’s as if they actually live in the past.
And for all intents and purposes, that’s exactly what they’re doing.
How to cope with someone you love who is still so focused on the past?
First, realize: It isn’t going to be an easy task. In fact, far from it. After all, you’re dealing with someone who is essentially looking backward as they try to walk toward the future. They are still so mired in the past that they are stumbling and can’t see where they are going. The reality is that they can barely see daylight in terms of a new day and a new way of thinking for their lives in the future.
All you can realistically do is try to lead them toward a new start, where they are able to begin looking forward instead of being entirely caught up in the past. And the cards, as I’ve discovered over these many years giving psychic readings to countless numbers of those who are trying to cope with a partner, friend or family member who is so fixated on the past, will be a strong guiding force for you in that respect.
For instance, when the cards indicate that you can make a new start possible with that person, you surge forward aggressively to enable that to happen. You inspire that loved one to focus on the “here and now” by telling them in no uncertain terms that you understand the past was painful BUT…it’s time to find closure and move on.
When the cards indicate that you can’t budge such a person no matter how hard you may try, it’s time to give up the struggle and allow that individual to work through the pain of the past on his or her own. He or she might even need professional help to accomplish this in their lives.
Psychically speaking, some will never stop living in the past.
Such difficulty in turning away from the past and living in the present is perceived in readings to be an emotional mountain such individuals simply have to conquer on their own. Some will and some won’t. It can often take a terribly long period of time for those fixated so intently on the past to genuinely change and shift that focus in terms of their lives.
Sometimes the loss of you and the precious relationship shared with you will be enough to snap that individual out of a fixation about the past. I have to admit such a sudden turn-about in terms of focus isn’t however the norm. Typically, these individuals are dragging with them such a huge amount of personal baggage in terms of the past that if you stay and try too hard, you’ll only find yourself sucked into their own continuing melodrama.
Definitely not what you want to do. It will only make you feel frustrated and terribly helpless in the long run. You have to safeguard your own emotional health, after all.
You are far better off, as the cards will faithfully support when you’re dealing with someone still caught up in the past and can’t disconnect him or herself from it, to lovingly back away and attempt to go forward with your own life.
If the two of you are meant to reconnect once the past for that individual has been resolved, the future will bring the two of you together.
That is one of the most empowering aspects of this method of psychically reading ordinary playing cards on which you can rely: Despite the hardships that may be encountered along the way, what is meant to be will be. This is where faith and hope is so vitally important. You must believe what you perceive in the cards and follow their guidance – otherwise, why even receive psychic readings at all?
The best course of action you can ever take in such a relationship comes from knowing that when you allow others in your life to take their own journey toward understanding and personal growth in their own way and time, a better partner, friend or family member will be the end result – embracing you and returning your love and care once that journey is over.
I’ve witnessed this kind of transformation more times than I can tell you over the past three decades of conducting readings for myself and others. Especially when it comes to those who feel compelled to live in the past because of their own heartaches and unresolved pain.
They need our compassion and our ability to step back when it’s required to allow them to find their way from living in the past to embracing the present and turning themselves completely toward the future.
The best part is, they love us that much more for having such insight and understanding once they get their lives back on track.
Tags: card readings, emotional baggage, intuitive, living in the past, psychic, relationships, truth
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Saturday, August 29th, 2009
Are you someone who hasn’t led a very easy life emotionally and now tend to live very much on the defensive or as if you just don’t care? Trust me, there’s hope.
You don’t have to wear that emotional “cement overcoat” forever.
In Psychic Love Doctor card readings, your cards will signal right off the bat that many in the past whom you’ve tried to get close to, invest yourself in and ultimately, feel a strong loving attachment to have only let you down in the end.
These experiences will be perceived to have caused you to feel a considerable amount of emotional pain over the years to the extent that you’ve learned to process pain by protecting yourself through the wearing of an emotional “cement overcoat,” which compels you to treat others in an extremely harsh, abrasive manner in the process.
It’s important that you try to let yourself off the hook where guilt and regret are concerned in order to heal. Your defenses are perceived to have been created as a result of the experiences you’ve had in past relationships, which were, intuitively speaking, completely beyond your control.
Psychic Love insights lead to self discovery
Psychic Love Doctor readings will always, always indicate that you are involved in a crucial period of self-discovery when you become more aware of mistakes in judgment you’ve made where relationships are concerned in the past. As a result, you will be that much more empowered to change the course of your life for the better once you resolve the deep, inner pain you feel. Only then will you will be able to focus on achieving a happier, more fulfilling life for yourself in the future.
Realizing that you now wear a cement overcoat emotionally is definitely a step in the right direction in the sense that it confirms your desire for awareness so that you can change the path you are following to the future. Enabling you, by having that awareness, that you are more than ready to embrace a happier life for yourself now.
To achieve that happiness, I urge you to be gentler with yourself. Most importantly, forgive yourself. You are not a cruel person or making a fool of yourself. You are just an individual who has endured so many hurts and lingering wounds in your life that you feel the need to strike out at others simply to protect yourself from more pain.
I suggest that while you are trying to shed that cement overcoat that when you make a comment to someone and you know it’s unkind, you immediately force yourself to say, “I’m sorry, I didn’t mean to say that to you, I’m just going through a rough time right now.”
The more you can try to open yourself up to healing by being honest about yourself, the more that healing will have a chance to occur.
Psychic Love healing starts with those we love
It’s always been my perception that those closest to us when we are wearing that overcoat still cares for us but are in dire need of a sincere apology. Write or phone these individuals to tell them you are sorry. Let them know that you only wish true happiness for them.
Then concentrate on that good thought by allowing your loved ones to travel their own path to the future – regardless of whether it is with you or without you.
By sending positive energy out to others this way, you might be very surprised to find those most hurt by you in the past re-entering your life again in the future.
Those who wear such emotional cement overcoats are perceived to have been travelling a difficult, rugged road for themselves for quite a long period of time.
But by re-directing yourself toward forgiveness and understanding, you make it possible to be able to achieve both for yourself in the end.
Want more Love Doctor insights? Learn to conduct your own Psychic Love Doctor readings from my book, “The Message: Your Secrets In the Cards”, published by O Books. Become your own psychic…it doesn’t get better than that!
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Saturday, August 29th, 2009
In all the years I’ve spent giving Psychic Love Doctor readings, I have never perceived one particular individual as a perfect “mate” for anyone. That is good news for all of us!
Intuitively speaking, we all have the opportunity to enter into a multitude of relationships depending on how we choose to actually lead our lives from the emotional level.
All of these relationships are intended to teach us something meaningful.
Some of these relationships are deep and challenging, the kind that fall in the category of “soul mates.”
Other relationships enter our life to guide us toward a certain understanding of life, to teach us something – or simply to enable us to grow.
Many of us choose a single partner for life, others may commit to two or more partners in a lifetime, still more may simply choose to remain partnerless, achieving personal happiness in life on their own.
These are choices we make for ourselves as we live our lives.
It doesn’t always mean, however, that we will find the happiness we search for in a relationship. More times than not it’s a fruitless search…Why?
Because the happiness we seek is ultimately only to be found within ourselves.
In Psychic Love Doctor readings, the term “soul mate” is characterized as someone intended to enter your life path at a certain point in time and challenge you on a number of levels, specifically mentally, emotionally and spiritually. This is not necessarily the partner you are meant to spend all Eternity with.
Your soul mate is perceived to be your twin “you” in some respects but in others, the opposite aspects that you are striving to overcome.
Once you achieve genuine happiness from within yourself without having to receive it from an external source, as in a partner who makes you feel happy, you are no longer at the mercy of another’s feelings to bring you the happiness you need. You’ve created it for yourself by being happy from the inside out, rather from the outside in.
Once you achieve that kind of personal happiness for yourself, you empower yourself to be able to give to a partner, to others, even the world in general – the best part of yourself.
Psychic Love Doctor readings intuitively guide us toward such growth and expansion in our lives. They reveal to us the secret to finding true personal happiness…in ourselves.
Find out where you are on your own personal path to genuine happiness and the kind of relationship destined for you that will lead to lasting joy and love by learning the method I use to perceive the future for myself and others. My book, “The Message: Your Secrets In the Cards teaches you step-by-step how to become your own best psychic.
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