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Psychic Advice: What to do and not do during the holiday season

Wednesday, December 16th, 2009

The holidays can be the most meaningful times in our lives.  They can also prove to be the most stressful – if not the most damaging – particularly in terms of the future.

What we do (or don’t do) during the holidays can depend tremendously on how psychically aware we are about our lives and those who interact with us.

Personal Prophesy readings which use ordinary playing cards as the focal point for intuition perception can easily provide us with this all-important insight.

When I conduct readings for others during the holiday season, a huge item on my agenda as I perceive their lives through the cards is helping them not create a new negative holiday memory that will literally last forever.

I urge recipients of my readings to take a deep breath and a big step back in order to realistically consider the heartbreak they are setting themselves up for should they make poor choices for themselves during such an emotionally-charged time of the year.

Think back on your own past holiday experiences.  What comes to mind first?  Happy holiday memories, hopefully.  For many among us, however, our first remembrances are extremely negative.  What do those memories, the negative ones, do?  They linger endlessly in our own memory banks and quite often will affect the way we celebrate the holiday season far into the future.

Personal Prophesy readings have taught me over the years that Holiday Do’s and Don’ts are:

*  Give from the spirit if you can’t give from the heart.

The spirit believes in unconditional love and kindness because it is so intricately connected to the Universe itself.  Give in to your spiritual side during the holidays.  We all have family members, ex-spouses and friends who have let us down in the past.  Possibly in incredibly major ways.

Would it kill us to extend some kindness toward them on the spiritual level, even if it’s only in a simple expression of “Merry Christmas” or “Please have a happy new year”?

Probably not.

Doing so will also be a big shot in the arm where our own spirituality is concerned.

On the other hand, if you can’t bring yourself to take that step physically, do it completely on the spiritual level.  Say a prayer for that individual.  Help someone less fortunate who crosses your path and provide that help as a spiritual offering in the name of someone who has hurt you in the past. You’ll be amazed at how blessed you become in your own life as a result!

*  If you have children, buy their mother or father a gift on behalf of your kids.

Remember, it isn’t so much the gift  itself that’s important, it’s what you are teaching your children by making that gift possible for them to hold in their hands and be able to give to the other parent in their lives that matters.

Children can feel so emotionally torn during the holidays.  They love unconditionally both of their parents, after all.  They want desperately during the holidays to be able to express that love.  These kids never asked to suddenly find themselves refugees of a marriage or a committed relationship gone wrong that has since transformed into a messy divorce or a custody battle.  They deserve to be taught the rightness of having a gift to give to that other parent – even if it isn’t a parent they have the chance to see very often.

These are things your children will remember far into adulthood and help them to learn solid lessons about life to pass down to their own children one day:  The positive lessons they were taught about giving from you.  The positive lessons they were taught about simply loving and honoring their parents – as distanced and apart as those parents might be. Again, lessons learned from you.

Such a gesture made through your children, providing a gift for them to give to that other parent, will accomplish all of that.  It doesn’t matter how much of a rat their father was as a husband or how deficient their mother might have been as a wife during the marriage.  Focus on the fact that you are teaching your children something important about giving and loving.  The other parent will understand the lesson being taught by graciously receiving that gift.

*  Don’t dwell on issues that have yet to be fully resolved.

This means especially with your own existing partners, family members, in-laws and friends.  If you are in the midst of a situation, don’t bring that baggage into the holidays you are trying to celebrate.  Yes, of course, you have every reason to analyze and debate “this” or “that” in terms of your relationships with these people, but let the cards and your own better judgment guide you as you celebrate the holiday season.

Family members and friends?  It doesn’t hurt to just try to give a little of yourself through, say, a card extending a bit of your own humanity. It also makes you a better person within the scope of the Universe.  But if you can’t bring yourself to buy them a gift, you can always donate to a worthy cause in their name with global charities like Heifer International.

You are really gifting the less fortunate in the world by doing so.

An ex your heart is is struggling with who wants to make a new start with you?  Give it a try.  The holiday season is, after all, focused on rebirth and the celebration of life.  You really have nothing to lose and everything to gain by taking such a step, particularly at this time of the year.

If the two of you are able to create a new beginning as you celebrate the holidays, you’ll have this holiday season to look back on and remember.  If the relationship just can’t achieve solid footing, once the holidays have passed you will at least have a good memory to place in your memory banks and not a negative one.

With that relationship fully resolved, you won’t have any baggage to take with you into the holiday season next year.

Psychic Awareness: Coping with setbacks and failures in your life

Friday, December 11th, 2009

Those driven by performance and perfectionism come down very hard on themselves whenever they meet setbacks or outright failure on the paths they’ve chosen to take to the future.

The difficulty arises from their own determined sense of commitment to meet certain personal goals, an unwavering pursuit of success and achievement,  and the urgent need to do everything exactly right and in precisely (what they consider to be) the most correct time frame.

All of this will be seen in Personal Prophesy card readings as literally driving these individuals into the ground.  Not to mention practically driving themselves completely crazy in the process.

If this describes you, it’s time to take a good hard look at the intuitive “whys” involved and to start bringing change to your life for the better as as a result of such psychic awareness.

Allowing yourself the room to “fail” – as much as you may despise the word – absolutely must become an option as you continue to follow the course you are taking toward the future.

Perfectionism is, in itself, a seriously debilitating disease. (Take it from one who knows!)  It not only severely frustrates the mind, cripples the emotions and whittles away at the spirit, but it can wreak serious havoc on the body’s ability to maintain wellness as well.

Please consider that, without your health, you essentially have very little to keep you going.  Peace of mind and wholeness in body comes from realizing genuine quality of life means living your life to the fullest in the present while accepting your own limitations, ultimately leading to a more fulfilling future in the long run.

I urge you to allow yourself to let the setbacks and failures you encounter, go.  Seriously:  Just let them go, forcing yourself to put them behind you into the past – where they belong. Stop trying to analyze these setbacks and failures, just accept them as a sign that you were not meant to proceed with your life in that particular direction.

No more tears, no more agonizing.  Period.  Simply say to yourself, “It happened. It’s over. It is only a moment in time that I can effectively put behind me.” Then, emotionally do, in fact, walk away from it.

Personal Prophesy readings give us strong psychic guidance

My personal opinion, after conducting hundreds and hundreds of readings for others (and reading my own cards as I’ve done for years), when something so seemingly “simple” in our lives goes wrong in terms of a setback or failure, it’s a divine message to us that we are plainly not intended to take the step forward we had anticipated, that we are being directed by the hand of God (the power of the Universe – however you wish to personally define the force which inspires us to live our lives on earth) to learn from an unexpected lesson and gain personal wisdom and insight for ourselves from it.

As Personal Prophesy teaches us, often we can push and push to realize an important goal for ourselves – especially something we’ve seriously struggled with for quite some time.  When it isn’t the “calling” we are really intended to pursue in living our lives, the more we try to move forward, the more we face setbacks and failures which pull us distinctly backward – very much like quicksand.

Visualize yourself, right now, as mired in such quicksand. Struggling to get yourself free of it may seem like the natural thing to do, but inevitably, you are only incapacitating yourself all the more. But by offering no further resistance and allowing someone else to pull you from it, to guide you from such a helpless moment in time, you make it possible for yourself to answer your own true calling as you move toward the future.

For those who are facing setbacks and failures in their academic lives, the cards will unequivocally indicate that the time is swiftly approaching for these individuals to start actively “doing”  meaningful things with the education they’ve recieved thus far, rather than spending more time trying to become more educated.

The more you feel your academic life is disintegrating and that you, yourself, are becoming more mired in that quicksand, the more you need to consider seeking an alternate course of action in terms of the future. This is, according to Personal Prophesy philosophy which I teach in my book “The Message”, not the path most intended for you.

It is as if those most affected by setbacks and failures in their lives are being “paged” by the Higher Power to move forward and, in a very positive and decisive manner, to begin “Doing” that which you are being called on to do, at this particular point in your life.

Setbacks and failures have a distinct purpose in our lives.

Specifically, setbacks and failures are meant to help lead us and guide us into the direction we are meant to go.  Once we are able to have enough faith that the Universe will conspire with us and not against us to enable us to achieve happier, more successful lives, we can let ourselves off the hook where setbacks and failures are concerned.

We can see them as merely road signs to the future…the future we are meant to live and enjoy.

Psychic Awareness: Do You Have the Mind of a Scientist?

Sunday, October 11th, 2009

 Do you possess the mind of a scientist?

If so:  You are a highly-charged, deeply-intellectual individual, possessing an extremely analytical nature; a person who has no difficulty whatsoever processing facts and information. You are astute in nature and driven by passion to find answers. Even when it means you must stay up all night searching for them.

It’s emotions that are intuitively perceived to tend to be your personal albatross much of the time.

Possessing what can best be summed up as the mind of a scientist and the heart of a realist romantically, it’s no wonder emotions are so challenging in your own personal search for happiness.

Emotions, in and of themselves, are perceived as being frustratingly mysterious for you at times and even harder to manage at other times – which can be quite a task for someone like you who prefers to move from one moment to the next in a precise, systematic fashion rather than suddenly finding yourself caught up following an unstable emotional zigzag.

Efficient at making friends wherever you go, your cards indicate that you have a keen, charismatic personality. Disciplined and dedicated to the goals you undertake, there isn’t much you couldn’t accomplish once you’ve set your mind to it.

You are seen in readings as being extremely skilled at helping others cope with their problems and resolving differences within the framework of their own lives. You possess this ability to process their pain and to perceive their struggles on a highly intuitive level which far exceeds that of the average individual. You clearly “see” the end result of their choices; however, what perplexes you is how emotionally-driven individuals never seem to take the logical path toward the future.

While the cards will never fail to indicate that you are swiftly approaching an extremely successful period professionally, you will also be perceived as entrenched in a highly ambiguous period where your personal life is concerned.

Why is this so? For one thing, emotions will be characterized as continually trying to control you, leaving you to experience confusion, uncertainty and a considerable amount of disillusionment. The cards will unequivocally indicate that you are quickly approaching an important crossroad in your life, yet you will fight like crazy to control the path itself.

Many times, that’s precisely what you will do – even when it is to your own detriment in the search for happiness.

Emotions will always possess the potential to significantly alter the future in terms of the path you’ve chosen for yourself. Those times in life when your ability to accurately analyze a situation and make the best choices for yourself will certainly be put to the test once emotions come into play.

It’s important for those who fall in this catagory to remember that the Present is constantly in a state of flux. But this “changeability” of the moment we find ourselves standing in is one heck of a powerful instrument, when we know how to use it to our best advantage.

Those who possess the mind of a scientist will confront cards in their readings indicating that they have entered a period in their lives where they find themselves taking not only a good, hard look at where they currently stand, but where they are headed in terms of the future.

Personal dreams they had for themselves in the past which they thought had been laid to rest long ago, will inexplicably be perceived to be once again lighting the fires of emotion within them.

If you have been blessed with the mind of scientist, you really ought to see these dreams through to completion. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain by striving to make these passionate dreams become realities in your life, even if it means sacrificing “science” for the sheer simplicity of our own happiness.

My perception is that anyone who is truly ready to embrace the future by opening up to the creative energy the universe generously offers in order to make the deepest of dreams come true and, at the same time, to point yourself in the direction of genuine happiness – will never regret taking such a step.

Remember, “The dreams of youth become the regrets of maturity.” Don’t put yourself and your own mind of a scientist in such a position for the future.