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Friday, December 18th, 2009
Need, in terms of Personal Prophesy philosophy which I use exclusively in giving playing card readings, is an extremely powerful force.
Need encompasses the deepest, most intense yearning of the heart to feel that sense of completeness which only one partner – the right partner – can provide.
Women are intuitively perceived to express “need” much more easily than men do, mainly because women tend to live their lives far more in touch with their own true feelings.
Men, on the other hand, tend to be more withdrawn in terms of expressing “need” simply because they put so much effort into denying for themselves what they consider to be emotional weakness. At least in the external sense. When I conduct card readings focused on a particular man, it’s readily perceivable the depth of the need he feels.
Need is interpreted quite a large part of the time in readings for men as weakness in terms of their own perception. Men, after all, aren’t designed to accept feelings of weakness in terms of themselves. They are, by nature, hunters and protectors. They are raised to be strong and courageous. Even their own mothers have told them, “Boys don’t cry,” which in essence tells them from a very early age that males do not “feel”, they instead “react” by being fearless, strong, unaffected by emotion. Which is why so many men portray themselves as needless in their relationships.
A totally wrong concept when it comes to the human heart and Personal Prophesy card readings
After years of conducting psychic/intuitive readings for men from around the world, I can tell you that they are extremely deep feeling, they do suffer incredibly intense emotions, they have a strong tendency to be highly sensitive beings, but – and this is an awfully huge “BUT” – they are so adept at stuffing these emotions and their own relentless feelings of neediness behind a careless facade enabling them to project themselves as cool, aloof, unaffected.
This is one of the reasons why I urge women engaged in difficult, unsatisfying relationships to decisively choose to remove themselves from these relationships and simply walk away even when they don’t want to take such a step. Not because there is no love on the part of the men they are involved with, clearly there is love in the hearts of these men as perceived in the cards.
The step these women decide to take “out” of these relationships holds tremendous potential to lead these men toward genuine feelings of loss and ultimately, need. The need to get that relationship back and become better partners for these women in the end.
Remember that old saying, “You don’t know what you had until it’s gone?” It’s almost magical when it comes to a man who seemed emotionally indifferent during a relationship. Give him enough time to realize how much he misses you and what he had when he was in this relationship with you and you’ll find him wanting to be a better man for you as a result of his own deep-seated feelings of need.
Tags: love, need, Personal Prophesy, psychic, readings, relationships, truth
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Sunday, November 29th, 2009
After nearly 30 years of conducting Psychic Love Doctor readings for myself and others, a few irrefutable insights have revealed themselves over and over again.
Specifically:
- Real love never dies, even under the worst possible circumstances
- The joy of love in relationships always outweighs the pain
- The difference between love and hate is literally the turn of a leaf
In this discussion, let’s concentrate on #3: The difference between love and hate is literally the turn of a leaf.
Did you watch one of the latest episodes of “House” in the last couple of weeks? If you did, you might have caught an extremely telling moment between Cuddy and House near the end of the show.
TV.com posted in its Ignorance is Bliss Episode Recap:
House asks Cuddy if she wants to go for dinner. Cuddy refuses to play along and tells him to do his job. As Cuddy leaves, House intercepts her and asks if they can at least be civil. He then gives her the tickets for a holiday carnival, and says he’s just doing it to be nice. Cuddy refuses to take them and says she’ll see him tomorrow.
Now, think about it. If there was absolutely nothing in Cuddy’s heart for House, would she have rejected those tickets for herself and her daughter to attend a holiday carnival as abruptly as she did?
“I don’t want them,” she’d firmly stated.
Who says that to a nice gesture, a gift, from someone you feel affection for as a friend? No one. The gift is graciously accepted or declined with an “I’m sorry, that was nice of you, but we can’t go” or something along those lines and the carnival is either attended or not attended by the recipients of those tickets.
Psychic readings will clearly show unfinished emotional business between two people – especially the kind where pain and anger from the past are concerned – creating such an abrupt, even harsh response:
“I don’t want them.“
“I don’t need your help.”
“I don’t care that you’re lonely and hurting.”
“I hate you.”
Hate is the real biggie in these cases. Psychic readings never fail to reveal that no one who is truly resolved emotionally in terms of an ended relationship ever feels the passion and rage attached to the word “hate.”
Instead, they feel sympathy, empathy, sorrow, regret in connection to that ex-partner. Perhaps even indifference, apathy or just plain nothing by merely shrugging the shoulders and walking away.
Using the word hate and finding it characterized in psychic readings on the other hand, reveals so much more.
According to the article, Brain has thin line between love and hate, scientists reveal:
There really is a thin line between love and hate – at least in the brain, scientists have shown. A new study reveals that the brain’s “love” and “hate” circuits share identical structures.
Professor Semir Zeki, who carried out the brain scan study at University College London, said: “Hate is often considered to be an evil passion that should, in a better world, be tamed, controlled, and eradicated. Yet to the biologist, hate is a passion that is of equal interest to love.”
Did you get that?
Hate is a passion that is of equal interest to love.
In other words, even our own brains inherently understand the meaningful emotional connection between love and hate!
The same holds true in Personal Prophesy card readings.
Hate and love do share remarkably similar characteristics in such psychic readings and a bond that must be paid attention to. Both reveal the core of genuine passion – one positive, the other negative, yes – but it’s ‘passion’ just the same.
Such strong energy attached to that passion is very much akin to the difference between the turn of a leaf.
Consider that whenever the word hate is used in relation to another person we’ve shared an emotional bond with, particularly an ex-partner, there’s an awful lot of unresolved emotional baggage attached. So much so that the heart has chosen to transform that “baggage” into something it can articulate with a word to describe the anger and pain: Hate.
Hate allows us to take a defensive power stance – especially when we feel the most helpless emotionally. It gives us a feeling of control and protection over feelings of extreme pain and anger. And it does it’s job well.
However, when you conduct Personal Prophesy readings for yourself and others – or you have a Personal Prophesy reading conducted for you, you’ll quickly find that hate is far closer to love than was ever previously imagined.
The cards will clearly show that such hate is essentially only a defensive posture taken. Beneath that hate still lies a tremendous amount of love – wounded and wrapped in pain and anger as it may be. The bottom line is that it’s still love.
By perceiving this type of revelation in psychic readings, you put yourself in the position to be able to intuitively guide yourself and others toward a higher understanding in terms of such hate, slowly over time.
You’ll also discover that hatred, because it is so closely related to love, can in many instances be worked through and brought to a point of positive resolve under seemingly simple circumstances. For instance, an ex genuinely expresses that he or she is sorry and wants to make amends. He or she goes to great lengths to try to gain forgiveness. A lengthy period of separation brings both to the point of a new beginning.
To learn more about what what causes hatred to help you better understand your own Personal Prophesy card readings, remember most of all:
As we change from day to day, our emotions change the same. Consider that what you felt ten years ago, five years ago, five months ago – isn’t how you truly feel today. The same holds true in terms of our relationships.
Harsh words spoken actually do betray a heart that still cares.
It’s what you do to turn that situation around as you put one foot in front of the other toward the future that makes all the difference in the world between hating and loving.
Think about that.
Tags: Cuddy, hate, House, love, Personal Prophesy, psychic, readings, relationships
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Friday, November 20th, 2009
So often I’m asked, “How do I change my life?”
Surprisingly, the answer that question is really very simple. And yet, it can seem horribly complex and overwhelming when you are mired in a life that seems utterly incapable of change.
In terms of Personal Prophesy card reading, the method I teach in my book “The Message: Your Secrets in the Cards”, the best place to start is by first changing the way you think about yourself and the life you’re living.
After all, you are the core substance of your own reality. When you change, your reality changes as well. As your reality changes, those around you are impacted by that change. It naturally follows that the world impacting your life inevitably changes in turn.
If you are broken in terms of your own heart and spirit (as so many of us are), you aren’t able to embrace the Universe and all it has to offer in the way of true blessings. Change in regard to yourself can then seem extremely difficult – if not practically impossible.
But the truth is, nothing is impossible in terms of Personal Prophesy card readings.
Love? It’s definitely attainable. Happiness? It’s always within arm’s reach. Healing? Absolutely. Fulfillment? Yes, it’s right there for you to seize and enjoy. All it takes is shifting your focus away from all that isn’t working in terms of your life and focusing instead on making your own life better by creating a new way of thinking and believing, by literally creating a new “reality” for yourself.
Such metaphysical thinking can – and will – bring healing and genuine empowerment to your life.
Just the simple act of taking a deck of ordinary playing cards and imparting to them your own innate spiritual and psychic energy as you shuffle them and lay the cards down for a reading, you are already breaking free from your own chains of impossibility. You are empowering yourself through your own intuitive insight to see clearly in front of you the tremendous amount of possibility that exists for your life.
Imagine your life right now as a mirror. What you feel/believe/fear is reflected right back at you – and also mirrored in your own Personal Prophesy card readings. But as you open yourself to the immense amount of opportunity and true possibility that exists in the Universe which naturally happens when you learn to read your own cards by this method, you come to realize that you are more in charge of your own existence than you ever thought you could be.
For instance, if you have been raised to believe that love is a weakness (resulting from your own past abuse, neglect or a generally dysfunctional family life to which so many of us can relate), you simply cannot give love to someone else from a healthy position of strength no matter how much education you have nor how high your position in society might be.
You are essentially operating from that deep-seated perspective of weakness as if you are hiding in the shadows of life and others are out reveling in the sunlight. Everything you do, every expression of love you try to give, every commitment you attempt to make will be crippled by that sense of weakness.
How do you change that…ridding yourself of that horrible inherent sense of weakness in terms of loving?
Some would tell you to get a puppy – let the puppy teach you how to love from a position of strength. I’m not going to suggest something like that. I’m going to ask you to do something bigger and perhaps much scarier:
Start by loving yourself.
That’s right: Yourself.
Not just “kinda sorta” love yourself – but completely. Freely. Unconditionally.
After all, if we truly believe that the Higher Power created us, we then acknowledge that we were created out of supreme love because that is the power and true essence of the Universe: Love!
When we learn how to believe in love, how to live a love-filled life, when we completely walk in love…there isn’t anything that can possibly make us feel weak again. It starts by truly, completely, unconditionally loving ourselves. And that kind of love is healing in every sense of the word.
You can being to accomplish that by meditation. I’ve achieve amazing results for myself through guided meditation. The practice of meditation completely healed me of my decades-old affliction of anxiety panic disorder. Plus, I came from an intensely dysfunctional family background. I was able to resolve myself of the afflictions of this background by learning how to give myself intuitive card readings by the Personal Prophesy method of card reading, which I’ve used for the last 30 years.
This method, once you’ve learned it for yourself, will guide you, encourage you, empower you in terms of being able to love yourself – and others – in the most complete sense.
You’ll perceive your flaws, things you don’t like about yourself in the cards, yes. But you’ll also perceive how great your own potential is in terms of the life you’re living and your own immense capacity for genuinely loving in those cards as well. You’ll be able to perceive your own life’s path in the present and where it’s taking you in the future. An entirely changeable path – once you are able to perceive where you are in terms of your life and the path you are taking to the future.
Be patient with others.
Realize that everyone in your life is operating from his or her own value system created from their own personal life experiences and they may not see things the same way that you do.
By learning how to read your own cards, Personal Prophesy will give you insight into the lives of others and enable you to understand what makes them “tick.” Why they react as they do. What their intentions honestly are toward you and whether they are truly worthy of your own trust and faith.
You will learn to love those who are closest to you for their imperfections and faults simply by perceiving the true essence of their lives in your readings, understanding them on a deep, intuitive level. That kind of insight can be literally priceless.
Personal Prophesy card readings will give you rich insight into their lives and their interactions with you. You’ll be able to perceive through the cards that friends, relatives and romantic partners aren’t on the same level as you are emotionally, psychologically and even spiritually. Such insight makes it possible for you to relate better to them, to understand in a sense “where they’re coming from” and enables you to be more patient with them as they “come up to speed” with where you happen to be in your dealings with them.
Forgive yourself.
Yes, forgive yourself! The person you were in days gone by, making unwise choices that took you down a painful, faulty path is not who you are today. You’ve learned important lessons from the past. Now it’s time to strive to let the past go. The past is little more than ashes sitting in a fireplace. You don’t want to spend your the rest of your life sifting through ashes, do you?
No, of course not.
So let yourself off the hook for the past you’ve led. It’s dead and gone. The more you resurrect the past in your own mind, the more you keep yourself imprisoned by that fireplace filled with ashes! If you struggle with the process of letting go, I frequently advise clients who come to me for readings who yearn to release themselves from the past to use the following exercise:
Take a doll to a deserted beach, into the woods, even in the far reaches of your own backyard if you have no other secluded place to go. Hold that doll, cradle it and tell yourself that this doll represents your past.
Cry if you feel the need as you embrace the doll, re-affirming to yourself that the past represented by that doll has died and you are mourning the past for all your own misguided intentions in those days.
Then dig a hole and bury the doll – with it, your sorrow, your sadness, your regrets. Give your past an important, meaningful burial. When you feel ready, leave the burial site knowing that you are now stepping out into a new day and time for yourself. Literally bury the past and leave it there. It has no place or meaning in terms of your future.
Clients have come back and told me this exercise was extremely cleansing and rejuvenating for them on both an emotional and spiritual level.
Have faith in yourself and your own future.
Yes, faith! Faith, next to love, is about as bonded as you can get with the Universe. Faith can literally perform miracles if open yourself wholeheartedly to it.
Visualize faith this way: You are standing on the brink of nothing but sheer impossibility but you have faith. Faith that when you open your arms wide and you thrust yourself toward the abyss of nothingness, your own faith will give you wings and take you to the other side.
That is the true essence and definition of faith. Without that kind of deep abiding commitment in terms of faith, we are basically only pretending in terms of faith. Faith involves giving our all…believing in what has yet to become reality…confident that no matter what, faith will give us what we need, when we need it.
If you truly have that kind of faith – if you believe the impossible can become possible, if you can thrust yourself toward the unknown and say to yourself, “What I need will come to me when I need it” – you will never be afraid again. Genuine faith will lead you and guide you, bringing you exactly what you need.
I’ve seen the evidence of this kind of faith in my own life. The cards continually urged me to have faith and I did just that. Ten years ago, I wasn’t dating, wasn’t socializing – I was busy raising my children and focusing on my work. Still, the cards insisted my true soulmate was on the way.
He came to me very ironically at a time when I least expected anyone to enter my life. But I had faith through those dark, lonely years. And there he was. We will celebrate another wedding anniversary next June.
If you have faith – and the cards in your own readings will support your faith – you don’t have to go looking for the future. It will literally come to you.
It happened for me. It will happen for you.
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Sunday, October 11th, 2009
Often in readings, the cards will indicate that your partner is not ready to commit to his or her feelings for the long haul.
As a result, a breakup occurs. You may become all the more frustrated and perplexed as time continues to pass.
If you can try to see your life and the life he or she is living independently of you as being on two entirely different levels at this point – that he/she still has a considerable amount of emotional growing to do – it should become easier in the long run to get yourself through this difficult period.
For the present, I suggest that you love him/her enough to allow that individual the freedom to follow his/her own path toward understanding about the two of you and that you concentrate on your own faith that what is meant to be will “be” in its own way and time.
This is perhaps the hardest lesson of all in terms of Personal Prophesy card readings – allowing others to go through their own emotional paces to achieve that all-important, higher understanding. Strive to “let go” and allow the one you love the time he/she needs to become ready for you. In the meantime, focus on bettering yourself and becoming the person you are intended to be for the future.
For women: I feel very certain in conducting readings that you will hear from your ex again via telephone or email, but you are really going to have to hold yourself back when you do. Seem cheerful, very happy to hear from him. Express negatively “heavy” emotions or your deep disappointment over his having ended things between you and he will again disappear – I guarantee it. There is no doubt in my mind that men are driven by nature to try to “preserve themselves.”
Men are strange creatures when it comes to their hearts, ladies. Intuitively speaking, they will so often try to insulate and protect themselves from the very person they hold most dear.
Therefore, give him time to come around in his way of thinking and feeling. Allow him the space he needs to come to the realization of how much he misses you. Generally within three to six months (if not sooner), you and the one you love will re-start the relationship you’ve shared – but it will be a better, more fulfilling relationship for you the second time around.
Tags: breakup, card readings, commitment, intuitive, love, Personal Prophesy, relationship
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Sunday, October 11th, 2009
When a spouse during a legal separation realizes he or she sincerely doesn’t want the impending divorce, a Personal Prophesy card reading can be a tremendous amount of help.
Not only as a source of psychic, spiritual and emotional support but readings will clearly indicate whether there is potential for the marriage to be saved in the future.
Not always is this the case, but in those situations where such potential exists, the best first step is attempting to re-establish meaningful contact while striving to over come personal fears of rejection.
By doing so, an important door remains open where the future is concerned. My advice is that you don’t phone your spouse – there’s too much immediate pressure for both of you created by phone calls.
Instead write a warm, caring letter when you are feeling especially sentimental which asks nothing of your estranged partner. Instead, express from your heart that you genuinely pray for his/her happiness or simply sends loving thoughts his way – whichever of the two you feel most comfortable with.
Even something as simple as: “It’s your birthday, I was thinking about you and remembering the wonderful birthdays we shared in the past. You always had a way for making mine seem so special…thank you for that. Best wishes.”
Such a gesture asks nothing of the estranged spouse; however, it does encourage a new atmosphere to begin taking shape between you.
Without heated issues involved, no stress, pain or worry – simply compose and send a letter of compassion and understanding because you do still care so much. In essence, you are punting the emotional “ball,” giving your estranged spouse something to really think about as he/she moves toward the future he believes he wants at this point in time – without you.
It has been my experience repeatedly in readings that while you may actually go through the process of divorce, the cards will so often indicate that such a spouse will realize his/her own emotional mistakes before too long and yearn to re-unite for a new beginning with you. And of course forgiveness on both sides of the separation will be essential for any future healing to take place.
If you can be forgiving enough and receptive enough to consider such a possibility, in most instances that spouse will return to you, ready to be the life partner you wish so very much for him or her to be.
It won’t happen overnight, but it will happen – again, as long as the potential is perceived in the reading.
Tags: divorce, insight, love, marriage, psychic, spouse
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Saturday, August 29th, 2009
Are you someone who hasn’t led a very easy life emotionally and now tend to live very much on the defensive or as if you just don’t care? Trust me, there’s hope.
You don’t have to wear that emotional “cement overcoat” forever.
In Psychic Love Doctor card readings, your cards will signal right off the bat that many in the past whom you’ve tried to get close to, invest yourself in and ultimately, feel a strong loving attachment to have only let you down in the end.
These experiences will be perceived to have caused you to feel a considerable amount of emotional pain over the years to the extent that you’ve learned to process pain by protecting yourself through the wearing of an emotional “cement overcoat,” which compels you to treat others in an extremely harsh, abrasive manner in the process.
It’s important that you try to let yourself off the hook where guilt and regret are concerned in order to heal. Your defenses are perceived to have been created as a result of the experiences you’ve had in past relationships, which were, intuitively speaking, completely beyond your control.
Psychic Love insights lead to self discovery
Psychic Love Doctor readings will always, always indicate that you are involved in a crucial period of self-discovery when you become more aware of mistakes in judgment you’ve made where relationships are concerned in the past. As a result, you will be that much more empowered to change the course of your life for the better once you resolve the deep, inner pain you feel. Only then will you will be able to focus on achieving a happier, more fulfilling life for yourself in the future.
Realizing that you now wear a cement overcoat emotionally is definitely a step in the right direction in the sense that it confirms your desire for awareness so that you can change the path you are following to the future. Enabling you, by having that awareness, that you are more than ready to embrace a happier life for yourself now.
To achieve that happiness, I urge you to be gentler with yourself. Most importantly, forgive yourself. You are not a cruel person or making a fool of yourself. You are just an individual who has endured so many hurts and lingering wounds in your life that you feel the need to strike out at others simply to protect yourself from more pain.
I suggest that while you are trying to shed that cement overcoat that when you make a comment to someone and you know it’s unkind, you immediately force yourself to say, “I’m sorry, I didn’t mean to say that to you, I’m just going through a rough time right now.”
The more you can try to open yourself up to healing by being honest about yourself, the more that healing will have a chance to occur.
Psychic Love healing starts with those we love
It’s always been my perception that those closest to us when we are wearing that overcoat still cares for us but are in dire need of a sincere apology. Write or phone these individuals to tell them you are sorry. Let them know that you only wish true happiness for them.
Then concentrate on that good thought by allowing your loved ones to travel their own path to the future – regardless of whether it is with you or without you.
By sending positive energy out to others this way, you might be very surprised to find those most hurt by you in the past re-entering your life again in the future.
Those who wear such emotional cement overcoats are perceived to have been travelling a difficult, rugged road for themselves for quite a long period of time.
But by re-directing yourself toward forgiveness and understanding, you make it possible to be able to achieve both for yourself in the end.
Want more Love Doctor insights? Learn to conduct your own Psychic Love Doctor readings from my book, “The Message: Your Secrets In the Cards”, published by O Books. Become your own psychic…it doesn’t get better than that!
Tags: intuitive, love, psychic, readings, relationships
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Saturday, August 29th, 2009
In all the years I’ve spent giving Psychic Love Doctor readings, I have never perceived one particular individual as a perfect “mate” for anyone. That is good news for all of us!
Intuitively speaking, we all have the opportunity to enter into a multitude of relationships depending on how we choose to actually lead our lives from the emotional level.
All of these relationships are intended to teach us something meaningful.
Some of these relationships are deep and challenging, the kind that fall in the category of “soul mates.”
Other relationships enter our life to guide us toward a certain understanding of life, to teach us something – or simply to enable us to grow.
Many of us choose a single partner for life, others may commit to two or more partners in a lifetime, still more may simply choose to remain partnerless, achieving personal happiness in life on their own.
These are choices we make for ourselves as we live our lives.
It doesn’t always mean, however, that we will find the happiness we search for in a relationship. More times than not it’s a fruitless search…Why?
Because the happiness we seek is ultimately only to be found within ourselves.
In Psychic Love Doctor readings, the term “soul mate” is characterized as someone intended to enter your life path at a certain point in time and challenge you on a number of levels, specifically mentally, emotionally and spiritually. This is not necessarily the partner you are meant to spend all Eternity with.
Your soul mate is perceived to be your twin “you” in some respects but in others, the opposite aspects that you are striving to overcome.
Once you achieve genuine happiness from within yourself without having to receive it from an external source, as in a partner who makes you feel happy, you are no longer at the mercy of another’s feelings to bring you the happiness you need. You’ve created it for yourself by being happy from the inside out, rather from the outside in.
Once you achieve that kind of personal happiness for yourself, you empower yourself to be able to give to a partner, to others, even the world in general – the best part of yourself.
Psychic Love Doctor readings intuitively guide us toward such growth and expansion in our lives. They reveal to us the secret to finding true personal happiness…in ourselves.
Find out where you are on your own personal path to genuine happiness and the kind of relationship destined for you that will lead to lasting joy and love by learning the method I use to perceive the future for myself and others. My book, “The Message: Your Secrets In the Cards teaches you step-by-step how to become your own best psychic.
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Saturday, August 29th, 2009
In a large number of Psychic Love Doctor readings, I clearly see extremely loving and caring individuals who try their utmost to make the best of situations in their lives.
Even when they know they aren’t experiencing a deep sense of personal happiness from these situations, many of them still come through as managing to find a place of balance for themselves somewhere in the mix of things.
This ability to ‘adapt’ to what Life hands us is truly an admirable quality.
Unfortunately, it’s difficult to spend an entire lifetime merely settling for what we have – when our hearts yearn to embrace so much more.
Particularly where love and happiness is concerned: My perception is that we deny ourselves some of Life’s most fulfilling moments in order to maintain that balance, because we try to adapt so well to less than satisfactory circumstances.
My perception from these Psychic Love Doctor card readings will generally indicate a period of major change developing when we just sit mired in such complacency. While partners might profess never to leave their marriages or relationships, the cards will indicate it is extremely possible that will happen over the course of the next few years.
It’s important to remember that the cards hold a very strong “meant to be” quality in terms of our relationships with others. Intuitively speaking, marriages are often perceived to be in a state of flux or decline for quite some time. When affairs take shape, it isn’t that a drifting partner “wants his cake and to eat it too”, it’s more that the relationship itself has grown stagnant and unfulfilling for both spouses. One just happens to be more adaptable than the other.
The pressure of being so adaptable will inevitably lead toward a huge emotional showdown or blow-out. We can only placate an unfulfilling existence for so long.
The best thing you can ever possibly do for yourself is refuse to simply settle in life – whether it’s a job, a living arrangement, marriage, family situation – you owe it to yourself to always reach for true happiness and fulfillment.
Anything less puts you on the downside of being adaptable…an extremely unrewarding place to be.
Tags: adaptable, card, happiness, intuitive, love, psychic, readings, settling
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Friday, August 28th, 2009
Often in Psychic Love Doctor card readings, the cards will indicate that your partner is not ready to commit to his or her feelings for the long haul. As a result, a breakup occurs and you may become all the more frustrated and perplexed as time continues to pass.
If you can try to see your life and the life he or she is living independently of you as being on two entirely different levels at this point – that he/she still has a considerable amount of emotional growing to do – it should become easier in the long run to get yourself through this difficult period.
For the present, I suggest that you love him/her enough to allow him/her the freedom to follow his/her own path toward understanding about the two of you and that you concentrate on your own faith that what is meant to be will “be” in its own way and time.
This is perhaps the hardest lesson of all in terms of Personal Prophesy card readings - allowing others to go through their own emotional paces to achieve that all-important, higher understanding.
Strive to “let go” and allow the one you love the time he/she needs to become ready for you. In the meantime, focus on bettering yourself and becoming the person you are intended to be for the future.
For women: I feel very certain in conducting readings that you will hear from your ex again via telephone or email, but you are really going to have to hold yourself back when you do. Seem cheerful, very happy to hear from him. Express negatively “heavy” emotions or your deep disappointment over his having ended things between you and he will again disappear – I guarantee it. There is no doubt in my mind that men are driven by nature to try to “preserve themselves.”
Men are strange creatures when it comes to their hearts, ladies. Intuitively speaking, they will so often try to insulate and protect themselves from the very person they hold most dear.
Therefore, give him time to come around in his way of thinking and feeling. Allow him the space he needs to come to the realization of how much he misses you.
Generally within three to six months (if not sooner), you and the one you love will re-start the relationship you’ve shared – but it will be a better, more fulfilling relationship for you the second time around.
You can become this intuitive about relationships like this in your own life by picking up a copy of my book, “The Message: Your Secrets In the Cards” published by O Books. It’s on sale now!
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