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Psychic Awareness: Coping with setbacks and failures in your life

Friday, December 11th, 2009

Those driven by performance and perfectionism come down very hard on themselves whenever they meet setbacks or outright failure on the paths they’ve chosen to take to the future.

The difficulty arises from their own determined sense of commitment to meet certain personal goals, an unwavering pursuit of success and achievement,  and the urgent need to do everything exactly right and in precisely (what they consider to be) the most correct time frame.

All of this will be seen in Personal Prophesy card readings as literally driving these individuals into the ground.  Not to mention practically driving themselves completely crazy in the process.

If this describes you, it’s time to take a good hard look at the intuitive “whys” involved and to start bringing change to your life for the better as as a result of such psychic awareness.

Allowing yourself the room to “fail” – as much as you may despise the word – absolutely must become an option as you continue to follow the course you are taking toward the future.

Perfectionism is, in itself, a seriously debilitating disease. (Take it from one who knows!)  It not only severely frustrates the mind, cripples the emotions and whittles away at the spirit, but it can wreak serious havoc on the body’s ability to maintain wellness as well.

Please consider that, without your health, you essentially have very little to keep you going.  Peace of mind and wholeness in body comes from realizing genuine quality of life means living your life to the fullest in the present while accepting your own limitations, ultimately leading to a more fulfilling future in the long run.

I urge you to allow yourself to let the setbacks and failures you encounter, go.  Seriously:  Just let them go, forcing yourself to put them behind you into the past – where they belong. Stop trying to analyze these setbacks and failures, just accept them as a sign that you were not meant to proceed with your life in that particular direction.

No more tears, no more agonizing.  Period.  Simply say to yourself, “It happened. It’s over. It is only a moment in time that I can effectively put behind me.” Then, emotionally do, in fact, walk away from it.

Personal Prophesy readings give us strong psychic guidance

My personal opinion, after conducting hundreds and hundreds of readings for others (and reading my own cards as I’ve done for years), when something so seemingly “simple” in our lives goes wrong in terms of a setback or failure, it’s a divine message to us that we are plainly not intended to take the step forward we had anticipated, that we are being directed by the hand of God (the power of the Universe – however you wish to personally define the force which inspires us to live our lives on earth) to learn from an unexpected lesson and gain personal wisdom and insight for ourselves from it.

As Personal Prophesy teaches us, often we can push and push to realize an important goal for ourselves – especially something we’ve seriously struggled with for quite some time.  When it isn’t the “calling” we are really intended to pursue in living our lives, the more we try to move forward, the more we face setbacks and failures which pull us distinctly backward – very much like quicksand.

Visualize yourself, right now, as mired in such quicksand. Struggling to get yourself free of it may seem like the natural thing to do, but inevitably, you are only incapacitating yourself all the more. But by offering no further resistance and allowing someone else to pull you from it, to guide you from such a helpless moment in time, you make it possible for yourself to answer your own true calling as you move toward the future.

For those who are facing setbacks and failures in their academic lives, the cards will unequivocally indicate that the time is swiftly approaching for these individuals to start actively “doing”  meaningful things with the education they’ve recieved thus far, rather than spending more time trying to become more educated.

The more you feel your academic life is disintegrating and that you, yourself, are becoming more mired in that quicksand, the more you need to consider seeking an alternate course of action in terms of the future. This is, according to Personal Prophesy philosophy which I teach in my book “The Message”, not the path most intended for you.

It is as if those most affected by setbacks and failures in their lives are being “paged” by the Higher Power to move forward and, in a very positive and decisive manner, to begin “Doing” that which you are being called on to do, at this particular point in your life.

Setbacks and failures have a distinct purpose in our lives.

Specifically, setbacks and failures are meant to help lead us and guide us into the direction we are meant to go.  Once we are able to have enough faith that the Universe will conspire with us and not against us to enable us to achieve happier, more successful lives, we can let ourselves off the hook where setbacks and failures are concerned.

We can see them as merely road signs to the future…the future we are meant to live and enjoy.

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Psychic Love: Affairs with married men…is there hope?

Sunday, November 22nd, 2009

Any woman engaged in an affair with a married man knows deep down that regardless of how much she hopes for a committed future with him, she is doomed to be at the mercy of his marriage until he makes a choice.

Surprisingly or not, the vast majority of those I conduct psychic readings for are struggling with the same painful situation.  How they arrived at such a difficult place in their lives really doesn’t matter.  What they do once they find themselves engulfed in such affairs is what’s most important.

If you are one of them, I know the essence of your heart from the countless number of psychic readings I have conducted for those who have walked this walk before you.  While others may harshly judge you for allowing yourself to get involved with a married man in the first place, I never will.  I see my work in guiding others through the Personal Prophesy psychic readings my grandmother taught me to conduct so many years ago to be a much higher purpose than that.

After all, if we each lived perfect lives from start to finish, we wouldn’t need guidance from anyone – psychic or otherwise.  What we need when we’re traveling a rough and rocky road is compassion, understanding.  Someone to turn to who will be there to help, advise, comfort.

That is how I see my role when I’m conducting psychic readings with my cards focused on extra-marital relationships.

Psychic insights on an affair with a married man

If you  feel you are living in your own private universe where the  extreme ups and downs attached to this extra-marital relationship are concerned – others can’t understand it, you can’t understand it yourself – don’t despair. You are not alone. Your situation is far more typical among women – single and those who are also married – than you might imagine.

The problem as I perceive it in such unbalanced relationships – he professes to be extremely unhappy but stays married, you love him but he won’t commit to more than your regular clandestine meetings – is that you and the vast numbers of women like you are dealing with men who are essentially “hiding out” in their marriages.

Yes, even though they yearn earnestly to reach out for that Something More:  complete, fulfilled, happy lives to live for themselves in the future with another woman.  These men are, psychically speaking, living dual lives in the present.

One life involves marriage and children. They feel obligated out of a deep sense of personal duty to try their best to remain in these unsatisfying marriages, despite how unhappy they are.

The other life involves a woman – you - who truly loves him with her heart, her soul, every fiber of her being – offering a new way of life to such a man to celebrate and enjoy endlessly into the future.

Psychically speaking, a large number of men who carry on secretly for the long term in deeply romantic relationships with one special woman outside of marriage actually mean the promises they make: “We will be together one day,” “I will leave her, I don’t love her anymore,” etc.

The trouble is they simply aren’t ready to take that step toward a new course to follow for the future within your own urgent timeframe. My perception of the cards in such cases is the man in question wants to begin that new course, very badly.  However, he can’t seem to find the courage to ultimately let go.

Specifically, the marriage itself.

Rarely do I perceive in cards attached to long term affairs that the men involved still love their wives. On the contrary, they tend to despise their wives to such an extent that they loathe going home or having to be there at all.

Think about it: If a man has a great relationship with the woman he married with nothing missing in the relationship, why would he ever have any interest in an affair – especially a long-term affair?  Bottom line, he wouldn’t.

Men in long-term affairs are perceived in psychic readings to characteristically feel little or no emotional attachment to the children borne of that marriage as a result of such loathing toward their wives (even when they profess that the kids are the main reason keeping them tied to the marriage.)

Psychic insights from from Personal Prophesy card readings

Personal Prophesy card readings – which anyone can learn to conduct for themselves – will always cut right to the heart of the matter. You’ll know precisely what’s true and what isn’t.  Exactly where someone stands in terms of his or her life – and in terms of their feelings toward you.  Their wants, needs and desires…it’s all there to be perceived in a Personal Prophesy reading.

My perception over the years while conducting psychic readings of this type has been that these men are extremely fearful of trying to extricate themselves from their marriages essentially for fear of financial and certain other personal losses, particularly in reference to their reputations with close friends and family members. And of course retaliation from their wives – not realizing, of course, that everything in life tends to come with a price tag attached.  They, instead, yearn for the new life without any sacrifices involved which is an entirely unrealistic way of thinking on their part.

These are the most obvious obstacles to their own future happiness that these men must come to face and deal with on their own. Sometimes, they just can’t bring themselves to do it. Yes, despite how much they genuinely love that “other woman” in their lives.

As much as I’d love to tell women involved with these married men that it is possible to assist them in coping with these issues they’re struggling with, the cards never fail to indicate that they simply can’t do a thing to help. This “coming to terms” with the realities of life as it currently exists for their married lovers is perceived to be a significant personal journey only that married man can take in his own way and time

It can be extremely difficult to have to step back and let him go through his own paces, which may or may not lead to a legal separation followed by divorce.  It’s important for women who are involved in lengthy relationships with married men to realize they are not necessarily on the winning end of such an emotional wager.

And yet, I have to admit from my experience with Personal Prophesy psychic readings that the majority of men who do engage in lengthy affairs with one woman eventually do become divorced. By it isn’t by their own doing in quite a number of these marriage – it’s the wife who inevitably leaves first.

Most wives are inherently aware on a subconscious level that these husbands have faded in their commitment to marriage and are straying.  Even though so many will continue to try to cling to that man out of an intense sense of insecurity, these wives intuitively “know” their marriages aren’t working and from that subconscious level begin to gravitate toward a new future for themselves – even though they aren’t aware of that fact.

Of course, the ones who do discover the affair leave abruptly and get their licks in court to take all they can from that husband who did them wrong by cheating.  Others eventually realize they want more for themselves and gather up the children, leaving the marriage for a better life elsewhere.

The problem is it can take so long for this departure from marriage to occur that the “other woman” outgrows her attachment to that married man while waiting for him to become free and generally move on to stronger, healthier relationships with other available men in the meantime.

Psychic love advice on how to cope in an affair with a married man

Easy stuff here.  The cards inevitably offer the same advice in nearly every psychic reading I’ve conducted over the years for women involved in affairs with married men:

  • If the affair is making you miserable, end it.  Ask him not to contact you again until he’s divorced.  He may surprise you and miss you so much that he’ll feel compelled to get a divorce very quickly just to keep you in his life.
  • If he won’t leave his wife for you when you ask him to, end the affair.  Chances are, he’ll be at your door once he does get divorced.  It could take a good long while for him to get that divorce (probably because his wife divorced him instead) and you might be involved with someone else at that point. Stay with your new relationship, it offers more potential for you in the way of a meaningful commitment in the long run.
  • If you continue the affair until his marriage disintegrates, don’t marry him right away.  Spend a year living with him to ensure that he hasn’t brought baggage from the marriage into your relationship once he is free.  Once you’ve got him, you might find out that he wasn’t such a “prize” after all.

Relationships with married men? Yes, they can develop into beautiful long-term commitments once those marriages end. But you’ve got to be cautious and careful.

You can get insight into the futures of these affairs through Psychic Love Doctor readings or learning how to conduct intuitive readings for yourself by the Personal Prophesy card reading method.

Either way, you’ll have the insight you need to help you determine the path to take for the future.

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How do you start bringing metaphysical change to your life?

Friday, November 20th, 2009

 

So often I’m asked, “How do I change my life?”

Surprisingly, the answer that question is really very simple.  And yet, it can seem horribly complex and overwhelming when you are mired in a life that seems utterly incapable of change.

In terms of Personal Prophesy card reading, the method I teach in my book “The Message: Your Secrets in the Cards”, the best place to start is by first changing the way you think about yourself and the life you’re living.

After all, you are the core substance  of your own reality. When you change, your reality changes as well.  As your reality changes, those around you are impacted by that change.  It naturally follows that the world impacting your life  inevitably changes in turn.

If you are broken in terms of your own heart and spirit (as so many of us are), you aren’t able to embrace the Universe and all it has to offer in the way of true blessings.  Change in regard to yourself can then seem extremely difficult – if not practically impossible.

But the truth is, nothing is impossible in terms of Personal Prophesy card readings.

Love?  It’s definitely attainable.  Happiness? It’s always within arm’s reach. Healing? Absolutely.  Fulfillment? Yes, it’s right there for you to seize and enjoy.  All it takes is shifting your focus away from all that isn’t working in terms of your life and focusing instead on making your own life better by creating a new way of thinking and believing, by literally creating a new “reality” for yourself.

Such metaphysical thinking can – and will – bring healing and genuine empowerment to your life.

Just the simple act of taking a deck of ordinary playing cards and imparting to them your own innate spiritual and psychic energy as you shuffle them and lay the cards down for a reading, you are already breaking free from your own chains of impossibility.  You are empowering yourself through your own intuitive insight to see clearly in front of you the tremendous amount of possibility that exists for your life.

Imagine your  life right now as a mirror.  What you feel/believe/fear is reflected right back at you  – and also mirrored in your own Personal Prophesy card readings.  But as you open yourself to the immense amount of opportunity and true possibility that exists in the Universe which naturally happens when you learn to read your own cards by this method, you come to realize that you are more in charge of your own existence than you ever thought you could be.

For instance, if you have been raised to believe that love is a weakness (resulting from your own past abuse, neglect or a generally dysfunctional family life to which so many of us can relate), you simply cannot give love to someone else from a healthy position of strength no matter how much education you have nor how high your position in society might be.

You are essentially operating from that deep-seated perspective of weakness as if you are hiding in the shadows of life and others are out reveling in the sunlight.  Everything you do, every expression of love you try to give, every commitment you attempt to make will be crippled by that sense of weakness.

How do you change that…ridding yourself of that horrible inherent sense of weakness in terms of loving?

Some would tell you to get a puppy – let the puppy teach you how to love from a position of strength.   I’m not going to suggest something like that.  I’m going to ask you to do something bigger and perhaps much scarier:

Start by loving yourself.

That’s right: Yourself.

Not just “kinda sorta” love yourself – but completely. Freely. Unconditionally.

After all, if we truly believe that the Higher Power created us, we then acknowledge that we were created out of supreme love because that is the power and true essence of the Universe:  Love!

When we learn how to believe in love, how to live a love-filled life, when we completely walk in love…there isn’t anything that can possibly make us feel weak again.  It starts by truly, completely, unconditionally loving ourselves.  And that kind of love is healing in every sense of the word.

You can being to accomplish that by meditation. I’ve achieve amazing results for myself through guided meditation. The practice of meditation completely healed me of my decades-old affliction of anxiety panic disorder. Plus, I came from an intensely dysfunctional family background.  I was able to resolve myself of the afflictions of this background by learning how to give myself intuitive card readings by the Personal Prophesy method of card reading, which I’ve used for the last 30 years.

This method, once you’ve learned it for yourself, will guide you, encourage you, empower you in terms of being able to love yourself – and others – in the most complete sense.

You’ll perceive your flaws, things you don’t like about yourself in the cards, yes.  But you’ll also perceive how great your own potential is in terms of the life you’re living and your own immense capacity for genuinely loving in those cards as well.  You’ll be able to perceive your own life’s path in the present and where it’s taking you in the future. An entirely changeable path – once you are able to perceive where you are  in terms of your life and the path you are taking to the future.

Be patient with others.

Realize that everyone in your life is operating from his or her own value system created from their own personal life experiences and they may not see things the same way that you do.

By learning how to read your own cards, Personal Prophesy will give you insight into the lives of others and enable you to understand what makes them “tick.”  Why they react as they do.  What their intentions  honestly are toward you and whether they are truly worthy of your own trust and faith.

You will learn to love those who are closest to you for their imperfections and faults simply by perceiving the true essence of their lives in your readings, understanding them on a deep, intuitive level. That kind of insight can be literally priceless.

Personal Prophesy card readings will give you rich insight into their lives and their interactions with you.  You’ll be able to perceive through the cards that friends, relatives and romantic partners aren’t on the same level as you are emotionally, psychologically and even spiritually.  Such insight makes it possible for you to relate better to them, to understand in a sense “where they’re coming from” and enables you to be more patient with them as they “come up to speed” with where you happen to be in your dealings with them.

Forgive yourself.

Yes, forgive yourself!  The person you were in days gone by, making unwise choices that took you down a painful, faulty path is not who you are today.  You’ve learned important lessons from the past.  Now it’s time to strive to let the past go. The past is little more than ashes sitting in a fireplace. You don’t want to spend your the rest of your life sifting through ashes, do you?

No, of course not.

So let yourself off the hook for the past you’ve led.  It’s dead and gone.  The more you resurrect the past in your own mind, the more you keep yourself imprisoned by that fireplace filled with ashes!  If you struggle with the process of letting go, I frequently advise clients who come to me for readings who yearn to release themselves from the past to use the following exercise:

Take a doll to a deserted beach, into the woods, even in the far reaches of your own backyard if you have no other secluded place to go.  Hold that doll, cradle it and tell yourself that this doll represents your past.

Cry if you feel the need as you embrace the doll, re-affirming to yourself that the past represented by that doll has died and you are mourning the past for all your own misguided intentions in those days.

Then dig a hole and bury the doll – with it, your sorrow, your sadness, your regrets. Give your past an important, meaningful burial.  When you feel ready, leave the burial site knowing that you are now stepping out into a new day and time for yourself.  Literally bury the past and leave it there. It has no place or meaning in terms of your future.

Clients have come back and told me this exercise was extremely cleansing and rejuvenating for them on both an emotional and spiritual level.

Have faith in yourself and your own future.

Yes, faith!  Faith, next to love, is about as bonded as you can get with the Universe.  Faith can literally perform miracles if open yourself wholeheartedly to it.

Visualize faith this way:  You are standing on the brink of nothing but sheer impossibility but you have faith. Faith that when you open your arms wide and you thrust yourself toward the abyss of nothingness, your own faith will give you wings and take you to the other side.

That is the true essence and definition of faith.  Without that kind of deep abiding commitment in terms of faith, we are basically only pretending in terms of faith. Faith involves giving our all…believing in what has yet to become reality…confident that no matter what, faith will give us what we need, when we need it.

If you truly have that kind of faith – if you believe the impossible can become possible, if you can thrust yourself toward the unknown and say to yourself, “What I need will come to me when I need it”  – you will never be afraid again.  Genuine faith will lead you and guide you, bringing you exactly what you need.

I’ve seen the evidence of this kind of faith in my own life.  The cards continually urged me to have faith and I did just that. Ten years ago, I wasn’t dating, wasn’t socializing – I was busy raising my children and focusing on my work.  Still, the cards insisted my true soulmate was on the way.

He came to me very ironically at a time when I least expected anyone to enter my life.  But I had faith through those dark, lonely years.  And there he was.  We will celebrate another wedding anniversary next June.

If you have faith – and the cards in your own readings will support your faith – you don’t have to go looking for the future.  It will literally come to you.

It happened for me.  It will happen for you.




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Psychic Awareness: Spirits Haunt Our Land, What Can We Do?

Sunday, October 11th, 2009

Dear Deborah,

You gave us a reading six years ago advising us about investing in and living on a large piece of acreage and warned us about buying the first piece of property we fell in love with, because that may very well be a “lemon.”

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Overall, there have been approximately a dozen witnesses to paranormal activity on our property. The things that have happened to us, our family, and friends would make for an interesting book (maybe some day I will write one); our experience even turned my skeptic Dad into a believer in the paranormal!

Everybody gathered that historically it was the scene of a Native American tragedy where quite a few spirits became stuck there. We experienced much personal “bad luck” as we remained there, never seeming to make any progress. Two other neighbors also experience similar strange events on their property. One told us our property used to be part of the Ogallala Trail.

I consulted with three different shamans/mediums who told me I needed to be the one to help them find peace once and for all. Perhaps you can clarify this information for me. FYI–we have already moved out of there into a rental, to hopefully release our bad luck!

Signed, L.S.

Dear L.S.

I agree that you need to do what you can to to help these spirits find peace by releasing them from their spiritual attachment and subsequent haunting of this land. After considerable meditation and consultation of the cards, I suggest that you try the following.

Put yourself as close as you can get to the center of the property and remove all 12 face (court) cards from a new deck of playing cards. Also withdraw the Ace of Hearts (designated the “Home” card in readings).

Place the Ace of Hearts on the ground in front of you. In a large circle around the Ace, bury face down each of the 12 court cards (in no particular order), urging these spirits on the land to “go home” with your care and guidance, where they belong.

Why the 12 face cards? Remember, the cards themselves are intrinsically connected to the calendar. There are 12 months to the year, 12 signs to the zodiac, 12 months to each season.

As for the cards themselves, the four suits of the deck are also considered to symbolize the four elements of creation: earth, air, fire, water. This symbolic gesture on your part is seen to help dissipate the negative energy attached to this land for those who will call it “home” in the future.

The cards agree with your intuitiveness, L.S. You will sell the property in the latter months of this year.

Blessings,

Deborah

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Update from L.S.:

Just wanted to let you that your prediction just came true…we now have our house under contract…yay!

I believe sincerely that your reading was very helpful in that it enabled me to energetically release that home and its “spirits,” so I wanted to thank you for your wonderful insight.

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Psychic Love: Communicating When You Don’t Want the Divorce

Sunday, October 11th, 2009

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When a spouse during a legal separation realizes he or she sincerely doesn’t want the impending divorce,  a Personal Prophesy card reading can be a tremendous amount of help.

Not only as a source of psychic, spiritual and emotional support but readings will clearly indicate whether there is potential for the marriage to be  saved in the future.

Not always is this the case, but in those situations where such potential exists, the best first step is attempting to re-establish meaningful contact while striving to over come personal fears of rejection.

By doing so, an important door remains open where the future is concerned. My advice is that you don’t phone your spouse – there’s too much immediate pressure for both of you created by phone calls.

Instead write a warm, caring letter when you are feeling especially sentimental which asks nothing of your estranged partner.  Instead, express from your heart that you genuinely pray for his/her happiness or simply sends loving thoughts his way – whichever of the two you feel most comfortable with.

Even something as simple as: “It’s your birthday, I was thinking about you and remembering the wonderful birthdays we shared in the past. You always had a way for making mine seem so special…thank you for that.  Best wishes.”

Such a gesture asks nothing of the estranged spouse; however, it does encourage a new atmosphere to begin taking shape between you.

Without heated issues involved, no stress, pain or worry – simply compose and send a letter of compassion and understanding because you do still care so much.  In essence, you are punting the emotional “ball,” giving your estranged spouse something to really think about as he/she moves toward the future he believes he wants at this point in time – without you.

It has been my experience repeatedly in readings that while you may actually go through the process of divorce, the cards will so often indicate that such a spouse will realize his/her own emotional mistakes before too long and yearn to re-unite for a new beginning with you.  And of course forgiveness on both sides of the separation will be essential for any future healing to take place.

If you can be forgiving enough and receptive enough to consider such a possibility, in most instances that spouse will return to you, ready to be the life partner you wish so very much for him or her to be.

It won’t happen overnight, but it will happen – again, as long as the potential is perceived in the reading.

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Psychic Moments: Taking a Trip to Refuge City

Tuesday, September 15th, 2009

Girl alone with her own psychic awareness

Psychic awareness isn’t always about what we “see”…sometimes it’s what we come to understand about ourselves on a deep inner level.

Psychic readings will often reveal that we have some important personal issues to resolve before our paths will take a decidedly distinct turn in a new direction.

As we continue to weather a particularly difficult period in our lives, one that essentially encompasses all significant levels – physical, emotional, psychological and spiritual – we need to realize the obstacles we find ourselves currently facing aren’t coincidental.

They have actually been thrust into our paths for a very important reason.

That reason? To help us to grow…in essence to become…the person we need to be for the future.

It has been my perception in such psychic readings that during these times we enter a meaningful period of intense, personal re-organization and re-direction.

According to the psychic philosophy attached to the Personal Prophesy method of reading ordinary playing cards, when these periods take shape in our lives, they are considered to be necessary periods for inner growth to occur, very much like a “cocoon stage,” where we need to draw our energies inward rather than outward.

Psychically, these periods are referred to as bringing forward the need to take up temporary residence in what I call Refuge City – a place emotionally that few can penetrate until the necessary inner strength, peace and serenity have been achieved before moving forward and taking up once again the reigns of life.

These periods, as heavy and all-consuming as they may seem, provide us with the opportunity to really grow from the deepest part of ourselves. When they pass,  psychically speaking, we find ourselves feeling stronger and more ready to face the world and our own personal struggles than we ever were before.

It’s vitally important that we try our best to put a great deal of energy into ourselves and no one else at those particular points in our lives.

By psychically focusing on our own needs and addressing them, squarely confronting our deep-seated fears of being alone in the process  – refraining from seeking a relationship in the hopes that a partner will somehow magically rescue us from this time of hardship and emotional turmoil – our own health on all levels will steadily improve in the process.

An extremely negative way of thinking can easily manifest in poor health physically.

From the psychic level, the cards will clearly reflect the changes that need to be made on all levels.  For instance:

  • if we concentrate on becoming more centered emotionally, more in touch with ‘who’ we are deep down inside
  • if we commit ourselves to this personal quest and sincerely put the time into resolving the pain of the past
  • if we force ourselves to grow beyond this extremely unhappy moment comprising our lives in the present

Yes, our entire outlook on life can and will shift and take on a whole new meaning for the future!

I have witnessed this type of amazing transformation frequently over the years in card readings once the recipient has the psychic awareness to spend some time alone…to look inward and allow time to do it’s best work in our lives….by taking – absolutely – a trip to Refuge City.

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Psychic Love Doctor Insights: The Downside to Being Adaptable

Saturday, August 29th, 2009

Psychic love doctor reading insights on two people divided by inability to adapt

In a large number of Psychic Love Doctor readings, I clearly see extremely loving and caring individuals who try their utmost to make the best of situations in their lives.

Even when they know they aren’t experiencing a deep sense of personal happiness from these situations, many of them still come through as managing to find a place of balance for themselves somewhere in the mix of things.

This ability to ‘adapt’ to what Life hands us is truly an admirable quality.

Unfortunately, it’s difficult to spend an entire lifetime merely settling for what we have – when our hearts yearn to embrace so much more.

Particularly where love and happiness is concerned: My perception is that we deny ourselves some of Life’s most fulfilling moments in order to maintain that balance, because we try to adapt so well to less than satisfactory circumstances.

My perception from these Psychic Love Doctor card readings will generally indicate a period of major change developing when we just sit mired in such complacency. While partners might profess never to leave their marriages or relationships, the cards will indicate it is extremely possible that will happen over the course of the next few years.

It’s important to remember that the cards hold a very strong “meant to be” quality in terms of our relationships with others. Intuitively speaking, marriages are often perceived to be in a state of flux or decline for quite some time. When affairs take shape, it isn’t that a drifting partner “wants his cake and to eat it too”, it’s more that the relationship itself has grown stagnant and unfulfilling for both spouses. One just happens to be more adaptable than the other.

The pressure of being so adaptable will inevitably lead toward a huge emotional showdown or blow-out. We can only placate an unfulfilling existence for so long.

The best thing you can ever possibly do for yourself is refuse to simply settle in life – whether it’s a job, a living arrangement, marriage, family situation – you owe it to yourself to always reach for true happiness and fulfillment.

Anything less puts you on the downside of being adaptable…an extremely unrewarding place to be.

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Love Doctor Insights: When Partners Grow While Living Apart

Friday, August 28th, 2009

Often in Psychic Love Doctor card readings, the cards will indicate that your partner is not ready to commit to his or her feelings for the long haul. As a result, a breakup occurs and you may become all the more frustrated and perplexed as time continues to pass.

Psychic love reading about a couple growing while living apart

If you can try to see your life and the life he or she is living independently of you as being on two entirely different levels at this point – that he/she still has a considerable amount of emotional growing to do – it should become easier in the long run to get yourself through this difficult period.

For the present, I suggest that you love him/her enough to allow him/her the freedom to follow his/her own path toward understanding about the two of you and that you concentrate on your own faith that what is meant to be will “be” in its own way and time.

This is perhaps the hardest lesson of all in terms of Personal Prophesy card readings - allowing others to go through their own emotional paces to achieve that all-important, higher understanding.

Strive to “let go” and allow the one you love the time he/she needs to become ready for you. In the meantime, focus on bettering yourself and becoming the person you are intended to be for the future.

For women: I feel very certain in conducting readings that you will hear from your ex again via telephone or email, but you are really going to have to hold yourself back when you do. Seem cheerful, very happy to hear from him. Express negatively “heavy” emotions or your deep disappointment over his having ended things between you and he will again disappear – I guarantee it. There is no doubt in my mind that men are driven by nature to try to “preserve themselves.”

Men are strange creatures when it comes to their hearts, ladies. Intuitively speaking, they will so often try to insulate and protect themselves from the very person they hold most dear.

Therefore, give him time to come around in his way of thinking and feeling. Allow him the space he needs to come to the realization of how much he misses you.

Generally within three to six months (if not sooner), you and the one you love will re-start the relationship you’ve shared – but it will be a better, more fulfilling relationship for you the second time around.

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